Thursday, January 29, 2009

ThInGs HaPpEn

Okay I know a lot of people in my life that have abortions.  I also have read stories about people having abortions.  I know no one is perfect,but everybody has their reasons for doing what they do.  It's there life.  Since my blog is about abortions generally what you do is gather as much information as  you can on your topic that you are studying.  I was reading why people have abortions.  Some of the reasons why people have abortions make you want to get sick. I was watching t.v. and this women and her teenage daughter were being interviewed.  The topic was abortions.

They started out by being asked why do young teenage girls have abortions?  Well the mother tried to answer for the daughter ,but the daughter wasn't having any of that.  The daughter was saying that her mother didn't want to become a grandmother right now.  She said that the thought of her becoming a grandmother would make her sick.  She also said that she was to young to become a grandmother.  The daughter said that she wanted to keep the baby.  The mother didn't want her to keep the child.  I sat there in amazement that the mother could be a  selfish BITCH (or if you want to call her something else that's okay by me).  

The person doing the interview was in amazement as well.  Shocked that the daughter was being this way on t.v..  The interviewer asked another question afraid of what the answer might be he just brassed him self whent he question came out.  He asked do you know what the fetus goes through when you have abortion?  Do you know what it looks like?  He showed (theses pictures contain images that aren't suited for all viewers so be advised) pictures   of abortions that he got online. Now I looked at theses pictures and i wanted to get sick.  I still will support somebody if they want to have abortion ,but please if that is your choice in life please do it sooner then what theses people did.

The look on the teenage girls face was shocking.  She didn't know how  abortions were done.  She has had one before ,but they gave her a pain killer and they didn't tell her how the abortion was going to be done.  She almost got sick during the interview.  The mother didn't seem to care one way or the other.  It was very sad.  The daughter didn't know what to do with her self.  The interview told her not to feel guility.  The girl couldn't help ,but think what that baby was going through when they killed the baby.  Also to see what the baby looks like after the abortion has taken place.  

The teenage girl told us that she only had sex once.  (once is all it takes) Her and her boyfriend have been dating for a year and half and she thought that if she didn't do it she would lose him.  He told her that he loved her and that she was the only one for her.  She lost her virginity to him and once she found out that she was pregnant there went johnny.  And the poor girl was left with emotional stress of what she should do.  She could have provented this so easily if she just had gotten a condom or gotten on birth controll pills.  She wasn't thinking and now she has to live with the idea that she killed her little baby.  Normally mothers will do anything to help there child , but in this case mothers do anything to get red of the child.  Makes you sick, but are you to do.  It's not your body.

Thursday, January 22, 2009

InTerVieW W/A FriEnD

I did an interview with one of my good friends she is  a couple years older than me.  She got married with her high school sweet heart.  They found out after a year of being married they she was able to bare child.  She was heartbroken she did not know what to do.  She did not let that get her down because as soon as they found out they could not have kids they went to an adoption agency.

 It took a while ,but they were matched with a child and now they little girl is three years now.  She grows up so fast.


Question: Do you feel she is your own child?

Answer:  Why wouldn’t I feel that she is my own child?  I have raised her to be a wonderful and beautiful child.  She is always going to be our child even though I did not have her myself.  We love her with all our heart. There is nothing in this world that would change that.

Question: Will you tell her that she was adopted?

Answer: I am going to tell her when she turns eighteen.  I want her to know that just because I’m not her birth mother does not mean that I’m not her mother.  I will help her find her mother if that is what she wanted.  I am just going to let her know that I am her mother and the person that she is looking for is the person that blessed me with a beautiful child I want her to thank her for that ,but nothing more.

Question: Do you and your husband plan to adopted another child?

Answer: Well we think it would be good for Casalina to have a sister or brother.  My husband wants to have a boy so hopefully we get a boy.  We are crossing our fingers and hoping for the best.

 I want people to realize that if you don’t want a child there are other options then abortions  I am for abortions  ,but give people a chance that don’t have one to start with.  I am a firm believer that women can choose whatever they want whatever the out come is.  If you choose abortion then thats okay ,but it you don't thats wonderful. 

Thursday, January 15, 2009

Should we be the one that judges? What choices do we have about babies.

I was looking at pictures of abortions.  They are not pretty.  My sister had an abortion it wasn't by choice.  You can think what you want to think ,but she had problems with her heart.  Her heart beats irregular.  She would be a high risk patient; everyday should have to go to the hospital and get hooked up to machines.  You would know this if you read my other blogs.  
People make their own choices in life and what thoses choices are is up to them.  All they have to do is live with the choices they made.  This includes the decision to have an abortion.  

I have watched my sister go through the one thing i thought she would never have to do.  It has been a month since she has done it.  She is depressed and thinks about what she did everyday.   She said she killed somebody.  I don't think she did.  I think she saved a life.  She saved her own life. You have to think about the living.  You know that sounds selfish ,but who is not selfish sometimes.  

The question is should we judge her?  You be the judge for that.  I'm not going to tell you what you should think.  I'm just saying you have probably been judge before in your life and you probably didn't like it did you.  

In my next blog i'm going to have an interview with a person that adopted a child.  

Friday, January 9, 2009

Do you think this is right?

My blog is going to talk about  abortions; both the emotional and physically side effects. Also talk about abortion in general why people do it and why not. This is a very controversial topic.  Some people agree with the concept of abortion and some people are against it.  Given the emotion surrounding this subject, I think this is an interesting topic.  In this essay I’m going to be presenting examples of people who have abortions for personal reasons and others who do it for purely medical reasons.  I will also discuss what it is like to go through something as traumatic as an abortion.   Both the “before” and the “after”. 

Someone I know has just recently had abortion.  She had abortion because her heart would not take another pregnancy.  She has been recently engaged and they have been talking about having a child.  She already has a 6 year old girl, but she found out afterward when having an ultrasound that her heart would probably not take another pregnancy.   Do you think this is right?

 I am the type of person that in my life everything happens for a reason.  Some people do not think like that.  Which is okay because every body is entitled to there own opinion.

You do not have to agree with this topic other will just avoid the topic.  This topic is not something that you can avoid.  There are different circumstances that people looking in would not know unless they ask.  Just like when you are driving in your car and you look into somebody’s window you only see what you want to see.